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Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sat Jan 04, 2020 11:44 pm
by Lansert
Well, two years of Arelith have been a treat mostly. Didn’t think I’d stick around this long at first, and a few months ago I didn’t think I’d be leaving at all, guess I was wrong both times. Arelith has an amazing player base for the most part. It is vibrant, creative, inventive, hard working, and rather diverse in the kinds of stories they want to tell. We don’t always get along, in fact a lot of that time that is the case, but even now I have faith the player base will be alright in the long term.

What’s changed since a few months ago? I’m just not having fun anymore. The server’s culture and vision is going places I can’t follow. To be clear, this is not a dig at mechanical changes or UMD nerfs or anything like that. I think Irongron is doing a fine job actually and doesn’t get enough praise for the things he does. I am just seeing a direction people are taking things and cannot see myself having fun in that environment, so I’ll move on to hobbies and servers that are more in line with my taste.

I doubt I will be back. Perhaps I’m as wrong now as I was a few months or two years ago or perhaps not. Either way don’t wait up and have fun without me.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sat Jan 04, 2020 11:53 pm
by Vranohr
Oh, Justice Dad, you always will be remembered. I'm not only glad for I have met Ezekiel, all the stories we've been through, but to have met Lansert behind and get to know you, add you to my place in my heart for good and fun people I call friends.

The roleplay you have given me I will always remember and cherish the memories I have gotten.

I only wish to continue our friendship despite not having you in Arelith.

Cheers for everything from a sobbing Wizard.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Tue Jan 14, 2020 1:20 am
by Scylon
Scylon/Raziel -

I'm having a hard time getting hours to dedicate. I'll still be around a bit, just here and there.

I owe a summon to someone whom I don't remember. PM me here and I'll fix that up :P

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sat Jan 18, 2020 10:39 pm
by Hoodoo
I'm going to be away for a while due to something bad happening IRL. Sorry if I haven't gotten back to your request. I'll be back eventually.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:57 am
by Rasha
DM Hoodoo wrote:
Sat Jan 18, 2020 10:39 pm
I'm going to be away for a while due to something bad happening IRL. Sorry if I haven't gotten back to your request. I'll be back eventually.
Sending positive vibes your way. Hope all is well.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Fri Jan 24, 2020 8:26 am
by Hazard
Chook play will be pretty casual because freakin' Temtem just came out and it's cute af.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sun Jan 26, 2020 8:21 pm
by Sofawiel
Gone for a while. Back eventually.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Wed Feb 26, 2020 1:02 pm
by The GrumpyCat
Not dissapeared but of limited avaiablity. My computer went kaput and I'm waiting for it to be fixed (or maybe even replaced). Whilst I do have forum access, and maybe a bit of dm access in an emergency, my discord access is null and my general avaiablity will be a bit more limited.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Wed Mar 04, 2020 4:29 am
by Germain
I'll be out of town for a family funeral, starting today through Sunday.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Wed Mar 04, 2020 4:33 am
by D4wN
I’m sorry for your loss. Wishing you all the strength.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2020 10:49 am
by JustMonika
On Irongron's recommendation, I have decided to take my leave of Arelith after eleven years.
It was a privilage to contribute, DM, and play with you all.

I just don't feel comfortable here anymore.

Thanks.

[Characters that will go missing, Crystal, Rose of Wharftown, Howard Ford, Severus, Lilliana Snowfire.]

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2020 11:06 am
by Void
JustMonika wrote:
Sat Mar 07, 2020 10:49 am
On Irongron's recommendation, I have decided to take my leave of Arelith after eleven years.
It was a privilage to contribute, DM, and play with you all.

I just don't feel comfortable here anymore.

Thanks.

[Characters that will go missing, Crystal, Rose of Wharftown, Howard Ford, Severus, Lilliana Snowfire.]
I would suggest to reconsider.

The server hasn't changed, and forum conversations usually are far removed from the state of the actual world itself to the point where they might be a separate realm of their own. A good idea would be to focus on the world rather than the forums.

Still, it is your life and your decisions. Have fun and good luck with your future endeavors.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2020 7:43 am
by My decency
Takin a few personal days! Also gotta try and fix my mess of a sleep schedule. >_<

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2020 12:34 am
by Royal Blood
Work is nuts and stuff so until some things work out I'll be gone for a bit!

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2020 5:36 am
by Dreams
I’ll be gone until whatever connection issue isn’t there anymore.

See you around!

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2020 8:00 am
by Exordius
Some might have noticed i'm not on as much as normal, unfortunately i caught something... don't know if its just the Flu or if its Corona. So far its not been too bad but its definitely having an impact. I will try to keep up if i can but probably wont be around as much for at least the next few days.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2020 9:52 am
by Hazard
Exordius wrote:
Wed Mar 18, 2020 8:00 am
Some might have noticed i'm not on as much as normal, unfortunately i caught something... don't know if its just the Flu or if its Corona. So far its not been too bad but its definitely having an impact. I will try to keep up if i can but probably wont be around as much for at least the next few days.
Get well soon, and plenty of rest!

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Thu Apr 02, 2020 11:52 pm
by Wrips
Moving on to some other stuff!

See ya!

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Fri Apr 03, 2020 4:57 am
by MalKalz
Wrips wrote:
Thu Apr 02, 2020 11:52 pm
Moving on to some other stuff!

See ya!
Take care and be safe! Hope wherever life takes you, you find happiness and fun in it.

As they say, the light is always on.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Fri Apr 03, 2020 6:27 am
by Ork
Officially a dad. pretty surreal. gonna need some time to acclimate but, I love you dearly Arelith. stay weird.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Fri Apr 03, 2020 1:16 pm
by DM Atropos
Ork wrote:
Fri Apr 03, 2020 6:27 am
Officially a dad. pretty surreal. gonna need some time to acclimate but, I love you dearly Arelith. stay weird.
WOW!
Congratulations! Stop in to show us pics from time to time!

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2020 5:36 pm
by Dovesong
I'm sure everyone's noticed, but In'iira and Lily-Rose are going to be a bit sporadic until further notice. I'm tired. I'm stressed with RL. I am "an essential worker" so it's basically a matter of time until I not only get sick but cause the people I love most to get sick - namely my husband and daughter.

If the worst happens, I want this time to be something they, or I, will remember. I want to focus what energy my anxiety and work leave me with on them.

I'll be on Discord, and I'll pop in. When this is all over I hope to pick back up. All of you - stay safe. STAY HOME. Please.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2020 6:42 am
by Hazard
Going to be a bit sparse while I try out Last Oasis!

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2020 12:52 pm
by cowboy
Going to be slightly infrequent. I am watching over a disabled parent and am basically on call. If I am around and suddenly dip on you thats why.

Re: Thread of Disappearance

Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2020 11:53 am
by Eira
This isn't exactly disappearance, but I am further cutting back on my game time due to a personal commitment to seek out better things in life and focus on my novels.

Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, I will not be available on game, forums, or discord. And I will try my hardest not to respond to anything in those. The rest of the time, it will basically be like normal, though I will likely be less responsive overall.