Kushion wrote: Tue Apr 29, 2025 7:10 pm
This is so strange. I imagine this reply will also be taken as some sort of personal attack, but having recently played with a settlement leader and extremely social/popular character whose player did not join any of the supposedly 'Misused Official Discords', it's difficult to believe that all these scenarios of exclusion are the fault of any OOC Communication medium.
It could (shockingly) just be the result of in-character handling.
I'm not really sure where all this fear of colours and tags in the official discords is coming from, but if you feel like that's somehow actually inhibiting your ability to make change ICly then sure, remove them. Maybe I just haven't played in the correct settlements, but it's difficult to really believe, having seen quite the number of non-discord players finding prominent positions and big social circles.
Most of the issues posted in this thread are attributed to private-discords, not the public-ones, and toxicity and exclusionary gameplay in private discords/social mediums isn't exactly breaking news.
Your post is reasonable and polite, not sure why it would be taken as a personal attack.
The roles/colors are not the meat of the issue but still something worth noting. And it certainly does vary from one settlement to the next, that's part of what I am trying to gauge here with my questions.
I have managed to work some of my characters into some higher roles IC in the past. But it always felt like my greatest efforts were worth less than the bare minimum of someone else who was good friends with the leader OOC or insanely popular in discord. I think a lot of players can probably relate to that feeling.
The problem with the official discord that I keep trying to point out but failing at, is that it serves as a gateway to the private ones and empowers the people who run them. Maybe someone else can think of a more eloquent way to put it, but its like the mafia or the cartels using legitimate businesses as a cover for their other activities. The "Official" discords are the legit businesses with cops watching them saying "Looks legit to me!" meanwhile all the shady stuff is happening in the back (private discords) where the cops/DM's can't see. Yeah sure, to the rest of us it just looks like an ordinary pizza place, but that's not how Giovanni was able to afford his third mansion.
Kushion wrote: Tue Apr 29, 2025 7:23 pm
Myons current Ship-Captain didn't join the official discord until a time after they got the role, so it wasn't something they needed to achieve that position. The sail channel is public in that discord, so it's not really possible to do any evil ooc plotting in there.
That is surprising to me, as all my attempts to go sailing in Myon over multiple years and characters felt like beating my head against a wall, but I will take your word for it. I can count on one finger the amount of times I've been on their vessel despite holding prominent positions in that settlement for literally years.