Kudos to Irongron - Thank You For Everything!

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Serious, serious dedication that deserves multiple applauds. After seeing the art contest put on to address the botting/DDoS situation I had to ask: "How have they persisted? How has Irongron stuck around so long?" Hardly does the leadership of a RP community last long given the exact things Irongron mentioned, so I seriously applaud those that have persisted so they can continue to support the community and playerbase they love.

Sadly, it's a shame, though. The points Irongron has made are becoming far too commonplace in RP communities regardless of medium. Two decades of roleplaying online and I cannot still figure out the mindset behind the people that find indulgence in that behavior. Arelith, at least, has done the best job in squashing it.

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I do think that things feel like they have been a lot better over time. But I also don't see behind the scenes. I don't get to peek at the things the rest of us don't get to see. Thank you for all that you've done over many years and for continuing to make this place as successful as it has been. I hope I haven't personally contributed to any of these worries or concerns. I know I can be seen as negative. I try not to be. I care about things and that comes out in ways that can be problematic to people.

I do still have an immense amount of respect for everyone who works on the server and those who help tell stories and make it what it is for others, and you're certainly no exception. Your presence will be missed. Hopefully after some time you can return. But if you don't, I wish you all the best in whatever it is you choose to do. We'd simply be lucky if you chose to have it be here once again.

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We often felt more strongly, remember clearer and harder to forget against negative moments than positive ones.

That is what i always tell myself and as a person whose work involves dealing with different people all the time, I've come to realize that it feels better when you think that, only less than 1% of the entire different kind of people that you've dealt with, are seriously against you.
And it is such moments that I know, i am doing a good job which is a fact that is undeniable and proven which dispel perhaps not completely but more than half of my negative feeling from having to deal with disruptive matters / people.

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Irongron is the dad that came back with the milk.

No, but seriously, as a player I always thought of Iron and some kind of monolithic, dark figure, orchestrating the fate of our characters from a swiveling chair in some dark manor or perhaps a volcano mansion. That was my entire impression of the man. Unapproachable. Eldritch.

When I applied for the dev team, it was with little to no hope that it would go anywhere. I'm more than used to get a "Your profile does not align with the kind of position we are expecting to fill. All the luck in your future endeavors, idiot!", and as a player that at some point had probably entered a shouting match with half of the current staff for a reason of another, I didn't really imagine they'd have the best impression of me either (just a few weeks back I had called the Team, and incidentally Spyre, incompetent for how they managed the server rollback, not proud about that).

Yet it was Iron that reached out to me, and for the first time in the decade that I'd been playing I had a talk with the man.
It took about 5 sentences to realize that everything I thought about him was just part of the illusion that comes with being in a position of power. Iron is a dude, he's a huge nerd that is still passionate about a game that is old enough to be qualify as history and culture, the kind of guy that'd is as likely to tell you about a cool rock he found or the next character concept he wants to play. I couldn't imagine a better server lead.

I'm sure he'd totally like to have a swiveling chair, in a dark office in a volcano mansion, though - but so do I, so I get it.

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Just want to say my thanks, Ive been here pre-EE and this server is like an escape for me. For when I just want to get away from the troubles of life and be someone else. There's a number of times when life just kicks you around, I always go back to this little hidey-hole to try and get back up. Then after getting the much needed escape, I tone down my gaming to focus on life. Im sure this place means different to others, but for me, arelith is just like that. A sanctuary of sorts when the troubles and loneliness of life hits.

Just want to say thank you again for maintaining this little place we have for the past years.

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Ping14 wrote: Sat May 10, 2025 6:27 am

Just want to say my thanks, Ive been here pre-EE and this server is like an escape for me. For when I just want to get away from the troubles of life and be someone else. There's a number of times when life just kicks you around, I always go back to this little hidey-hole to try and get back up. Then after getting the much needed escape, I tone down my gaming to focus on life. Im sure this place means different to others, but for me, arelith is just like that. A sanctuary of sorts when the troubles and loneliness of life hits.

Just want to say thank you again for maintaining this little place we have for the past years.

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I haven't been here in a while; maybe Savras is up to his old tricks in having me check this forum today of all days. I just wanted to wish you well, IG. Good for you for recognizing when you need to step away, and I hope you can detach from the stress and get the detox you deserve. Appreciate all you did. Arelith is a special place to a lot of people, me included, even if I don't play here anymore. Cheers.

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Do enjoy the break.
Hope you come back re energized at a later date if not.

To quote Douglas.

So long and thanks for all the fish!

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Thanks 'Gron.

It's no easy thing, running a place like this. It's meant to be fun; but often, well - Y'get to see the worst of people. I'm sorry you have, and I'm thankful you did, for so many years. This place has been a light of kindness and joy through years of RL change and turmoil. It's genuinely made me a better person being here, and I've met some super cool folks as well.

Thank you so much for all your efforts. Whether you choose to return at a later date or not, they are truly, honestly appreciated, and made this corner of the internet that much more of a home.

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I think his hands-on role as the server lead has been the key component to Arelith's enduring success. Eg the steadfast principle that new players are the server's lifeblood. I imagine a lot of people, both Arelith's staff and players, wanted to have haks before NWN:EE (who wouldn't want really nice things?), but it was definitely the right decision to keep Arelith accessible to new players.

The problems he describes don't really reflect my experience as a player, and to this day I've had a very wholesome experience on the server. Thanks to the whole Arelith community for that.

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I had no idea things were this bad, and couldn't imagine that this level of harassment even existed here. My thoughts goes out to you, Irongron, and naturally all other Arelith staff who experience this. I can't imagine the frustration.

I think cutting like this is completely understandable but naturally very sad that it has to come to this. Your work has been appreciated by thousands, and I hope you will take that with you!

As a member of the community I will definitely do a better job to point out bad behavior. I think everyone on the server should do the same, these entitled and frankly disgusting people shouldn't be the ones who are heard the most. Trolling, toxic and just generally malicious people should be called out by everyone, not just Arelith staff.

Enjoy life away from this madness, thank you for everything and I hope we get to see you again!

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