Lady Astray wrote: Fri Dec 14, 2018 1:08 pm
I tried to stay and be optimistic. Tried being nice to the new faction leader. That is, until they changed the name of the faction, booted all of us who stayed out of the faction's HQ, then brought in their own pre-existing faction to replace us. These events caused the majority of my faction to leave the settlement outright. On top of that a lot of top political figures and key role players in the settlement also left. After a while the new faction leader quit, along with the person who instigated the situation which caused my old faction leader to step down in the first place. Now the settlement is pretty much barren.
I've stuck around trying to help newcomers and contribute to the RP so that the settlement might someday replenish its numbers. But it is sad so many have left. Like I said, I get to RP and adventure significantly less now, because there is hardly anyone left to RP or adventure with. Out of the few people left, a lot of them are opposed to my character IC simply because she had the audacity to speak out against disbanding a centuries old military and refusing to swear any kind of oath of fealty to the settlement or its leader. I feel like an outcast in the settlement just because I insisted that the other people who arrived after I did follow old traditions.
This isn't what happened, at all. I think you are the one who needs to "reflect" on your own warped view of events. Also, it's very classless to say, "I'm not going to name anyone" and then so specifically call them out. Just because you didn't use their names doesn't mean you didn't "name and shame" them. You're not the only one guilty of it in this thread, either.
The name was changed to something that is
actually elven and appropriate to the Forgotten Realms from something
literally named after a faction in the Warcraft series. There is no reason to be upset over such a thing, not all traditions are good. Also, no one was 'kicked out', the ownership of the barracks changed because the previous owner left and no one bothered to ask for new keys. It was not disbanded, it was renamed, and people upset about the replacing of an actual Warcraft reference stamped their feet and acted proud. The people who joined up after, my character included, did so because they approved of the way things were going, they had been completely independent, otherwise, and had no affiliations to anyone previously. However your character has never done anything but glare at and second guess my character, you have never made any attempt to engage him otherwise, so don't pretend as if your character is some poor outcast by our doing. It is fine if your character doesn't act kind on purpose, but it seems out of character you have no idea how inhospitable she acts to everyone that doesn't exist inside her little bubble.
As for people leaving, I'm unsure what you mean. I barely ever saw anyone other than, maybe two of the "major political players" despite consistent activity. They had already checked out by the time they "officially" left. People usually play characters for a few good months before getting burnt out and moving on. That's just the way it goes, things tend to move in cycles. However, there are plenty of people active in Myon and many new people besides; most of them, such as my character, are roleplaying all over the server instead of just sitting on a couch by the mythal. My character travels all over, checking in on other settlements, building relationships and meeting new people, scouting the roads and gathering resources. Maybe you should try something similar if you find yourself bored. Like
Harvey Danger says, "If you're bored then you're boring".
I don't know why you thought it was okay to post this, but I think you need to take a step back and be less biased to your own perspective, kinder and more accepting to your fellow players.