As I've said before.
This isn't because Scrying is bad.
It's because the server's been infected by a player base that "MUST WIN" and overly relied on PvP combat to deal with any form of conflict.
Both the Surface and the Underdark are massively notoriously awful about this, and you have entire factions of people that clearly are not here to Roleplay, they are here to PvP and use excessively weak excuses, Meta game, and break continuity all the time to enable their ability to PvP others.
This behavior has been left to run rampant for years, and it's only getting worse as time goes on. The more time goes on, the less Arelith feels like an RP server and more like a PVP with some light RP server.
If you want tools to stop being abused, you have to address this PvP mindset and "I MUST WIN" attitude that has unfortunately become engrained into the server.
No amount of removing things like scrying is going to fix this issue. You can remove scrying and people will still continue this behavior, they will simply find some other way to skirt around the rules and find excuses to jump straight to PvP.
TL;DR
It's player behavior, not tools, that are causing the issues people are frustrated by, but for some reason they just want to kick the can down the road, instead of picking the can up and tossing it in the trash. Removing RP cookies because some people abuse them is not going to fix the issue.