D4wN wrote: Wed Oct 23, 2024 9:11 amCraithe wrote: Wed Oct 23, 2024 12:42 amI agree with a lot of this post. I can think of plenty of players/friends who don't even bother looking up from what they're doing when DM events go on because they have the perception that if the event isn't already catered to a specific group, its soon going to be taken over by a group and ball guarded from the community at large.
I think the start of this thread is speaking much more from a privileged position of having characters with extremely easy access to the front row seats of DM plots. If there is fatigue felt, step away. If its too many plots to keep up with, bow out. The concept of being shamed for not paying attention to 'world ending' DM plots is silly, because the plots will move on with or without your participation, and I believe there are plenty of players who would leap at the chance to get involved in DM events if they just felt like they had the opportunity, or felt like they wouldn't be pushed out for not being part of the right factions.
I've sat on the sideline of plots, trying to get a toe in the door and being pushed out. I've likewise seen plots pass by and just carried on with my usual content without consequence. It really isn't such a focal point that if you're not invested you're condemned. Hell, I've walked in on major DM conflicts and had my character say they're just minding their own business trying to get to their next dungeon, and I was free to jog on.
I do feel for the players who have their events overtaken by DM plot priority. That sucks and should probably be better organized/timed. But that's also the flow of roleplay. Probably hard to have a tea party when an earthquake is destroying your local theater.
Again, I am being called out here so I feel the need to respond. This isn't about being 'privileged'. I'm not. I'm not a DM favourite and I don't get plots thrown at me every week. I have played on Arelith for about 9 RL years and perhaps been in the spotlight 3-4 times in all those years across 4 characters. I take a lot of pride in actually helping others to shine and push them to the front of plots.
My post came from the fact that I was enjoying two back to back player events. The first being cut short due to insufferable lag and the second interrupted by calls for aid. And I see it happen again and again. I have been wanting to host events now for several weeks, but they cost a lot of time and effort to organise and I don't want all that go to waste if no one shows up or everyone leaves mid-way through when the world is ending (again). These major island wide plots have been happening now for most of this year back to back with several plots never finished/concluded. When a rot cube slithers through the city you play in, naturally you're going to have some involvement. When elves blow themselves up in your city, you're going to have some involvement. This doesn't mean DMs are centering things around your character. Just the area you play in.
I'd appreciate if this thread can stay on topic and people stop making assumptions about favouritism or being 'priviledged'. Making accusations towards fellow players was not to point of asking people's opinion on this.
Sorry, no. I feel like you missed what I meant when it comes to a privileged position in my post. I wasn't specifically calling you out, though I can see where you got that notion. I think there are several people who my post would easily apply to. Some posting in this thread, others entirely not. I don't mean privilege as a sense of DM favoritism. I mean access to plot. I'll use Thomas as an example since we're already here. You've built your character into a position where he has been in the center ring of leadership of a major (If not the major) settlement on the server for over a year. With positions that do create ease of access to DM plots. I can appreciate you saying you push plot on to other players for them to have a chance to shine. I think we would all expect similar from a character in a position like yours to create roleplay for others. But you and others with similar positions have built your characters into roles/reputations where you no longer need to fight for the limelight when DM plots roll through, but rather the roleplay comes looking for your input. To say you're not involved in DM plots is akin to saying that the Quarterback of (insert favorite american football team) isn't part of the offensive team because they're not a lineman. You probably do a great job of calling shots, keeping a distance, and giving other players opportunities to shine in DM plots. But that's a position you've built for yourself. To call fatigue against DM plots on the turn around to me sounds more like you should let others have that position for a while to unburden yourself. But hey, maybe you have. But that's why my post didn't call any one person out.
In so far as events having lag, that's a problem for both DM events and player events. Pointing a finger at DM event lag doesn't really speak to the same issue on the other side of the fence, aside from social events being more palatable because lag vs chatbox isn't as annoying as lag vs hellball.
To your last point, you made a feedback thread about DM plot fatigue. This is my opinion as a player who feels no fatigue. I'm not accusing people of favoritism, I'm simply pointing out that the fatigue can come from character position/involvement, more than actual density of DM plot across the entire server. Assuming my opinion is just an accusation toward you simply isn't what it is. Aragorn probably felt a lot of DM plot fatigue because he had to chew through every major plot in each movie. Merry Brandybuck got to enjoy salted pork after watching the Ents destroy Isengard for him.