Some actual Feedback:
Lore average race size is one thing and characters that players want to be is another. Personally it bothers me not only cause size change turned out to be more than expected - it bothers me the change was made at all. Please don't go that direction.
I have nothing against it if someone wants to play a small drow - problem is if I'm prevented from playing tall one.
Actually problem starts when people tell others what character they MUST play. Tall sized drow are perfectly within reason even if majority of players choses to play PC taller than average race representation due to cosmetic preference therefore ruining "average" image.
Use your imagination, fill that city with midget drow NPC if you'd like and let majority of players play what they prefer. All within reasons of course - and I'd consider old height settings without ANY changes perfectly reasonable.
You don't need to tone them down just cause average player prefers above average height.
Changing such aspects AFTER someone already made his character and breathed life into it feels just wrong.
Edit:
Small note about male/female height difference.
https://forgottenrealms.fandom.com/wiki/Drow
It was believed that females were generally BIGGER and stronger than males,[22] but BOTH sexes varied in height between 4′7″ (140 cm) and 5′5″ (165 cm)
Bigger doesn't mean taller - especially with how height is given in next paragraph for BOTH genders.
Also it turns out females probably had empty bones like birds cause according to linked article with sources from manuals females were bigger and lighter at the same time
